Posts Tagged ‘Richmond’

“Your baby has a high arched palate” – could be more serious

Tuesday, August 24th, 2010

I do cringe a little as I write this post, but having learnt something that will shed light on many mums breastfeeding problems, I feel it needs to be flung into the public domain. The question is, has anyone told you that your baby has a high arched palate and are you still having breastfeeding problems? Well, there is one more thing you can explore which will help you fully resolve breastfeeding problems.

The art and science of breastfeeding is a very new and recent development. This makes studying the subject and applying what you have learnt a lot trickier. Why? Well, there is always new information or research which alters the way you practice. As the subject is so new, we find that what we thought was right (and have told mums was right) actually is not right at all, in light of new research.

One example is how a baby breastfeeds. We used to think that babies used their tongue in a peristalsis motion to compress the breast against their palate in order to transfer milk. Now we know that the baby uses the front part of the tongue to stabilize the breast whilst lapping it to create a negative pressure/suction at the back of the mouth, which then transfers milk from the breast into the mouth, when the tongue drops.

Another example is a high arched palate. I was taught that a high arched palate is just how you are made. In fact many times when I pointed out a high arched palate, either mum or dad would say, ‘Yes, that is just like my palate’. So it may run in the family but on closer inspection of a book I recently purchased, I have discovered that a tongue tie can lead to the development of a high arched palate.

HMMM? Okay let me explain. When your baby is in the womb and developing, there are certain things that he or she will be doing in preparation for life in the big wide world. You have seen how babies suck their fingers, hiccough, burp in the womb haven’t you, so we know your baby is active. Well another thing your baby will be doing is moving his or her tongue across the upper palate. This creates a nice wide dome shaped palate which is great for breastfeeding.

However, when your baby is not able to move his or her tongue, the palate is shaped around the tongue, and this forms an arch. Usually the more pronounced the tongue tie, the more pronounced the arch of the palate. Now, as with everything in life, there are variations of tongue tie.

For instance, the tongue tie or membrane tying the tongue to the floor of the mouth, can be found right at the tip of the tongue, or further back, close to the base of the tongue. The membrane itself can also vary greatly. Sometimes it is elastic and flexible and other times it is short, thick and tight.

If you are struggling to feed your baby, have your baby checked for a tongue tie. If you close to me in Twickenham, I can have a look for you and refer you to the right people to have the tongue tie assessed and divided if need be.

Breastfeeding haven for Twickenham & Richmond mums

Thursday, July 29th, 2010

More mums are discovering the Let’s Breastfeed Practice in Twickenham each day. With the number of births soaring, many mums are looking for one to one care in a calm, relaxed and femimine environment. It is therefore no wonder that this little practice is buzzing with activity.

Geraldine Miskin, who is an independent breastfeeding specialist started practicing from her home at the beginning of February this year. ‘ I wanted to create a ’safe place’ where mums could find unbiased practical answers, relevant to their breastfeeding questions and peace of mind that they weren’t doing anything ‘wrong’ because they deviated from what was ‘expected of them’.’

Her methods are so successful, mums travel into Twickenham from all over the country. ‘Yes mums do travel to see me, some as far as Milton Keynes and Brighton. I enjoy serving my local community and am excited for the opportunity. Practicing from home allows me to see mums on the same day or within 24hours, which is essential when babies are very young.’

You will also find a wide range of breastfeeding products at the practice. ‘Having products to hand that a mum may need, makes everything easier. Mums appreciate the expert advice about which products would work well, or not, saving them time, energy and ££’s. I have found a number of secret prodcuts that work magic on sore nipples which friends of clients pop round to purchase. The Medela Swing pumps are also a favourite with mums.’

If you need breastfeeding help, you can call 0208 744 8144 to book an appointment at the Let’s Breastfeed Practice in Twickenham or you can speak to Geraldine directly on her advice line. The eBooks are also popular and mums are enjoying great success with her practical tips.

Breastfeeding, a family affair!

Wednesday, July 28th, 2010

I love this photo. Often when mums call to make an appointment with me, they tentatively ask whether or not their husband can be present during the consultation at my breastfeeding practice, to which I reply it ‘It goes without saying that he is more than welcome and possibly even expected to be there.’ Why? Because dads and the rest of the family play a very important role in breastfeeding!

We have all heard mums say that they chose to bottle feed baby, so that their other half could help and be involved with baby’s care from the start, so that they could bond and feel included. How a mum decides to feed her baby is her choice, but I just wanted to reassure expectant mums that there are very real ways dads can be involved and helpful without side stepping breastfeeding.

Just think about it for a minute. Women, the softer sex have babies and depending on the outcome of their delivery, will need a degree of looking after, supporting, nurturing and protecting. That leaves men, the stronger sex and perfect candidate, free to do just that. It is a man’s role to protect and care for his wife/partner and his young; it is not his role to feed his young.

So without sending him off to do the dishes, mopping and ironing, how can you get your husband or partner involved and bonding with his baby? You ask him to help you breastfeed.

Breastfeeding is a skill, a technique which is or can be quite intricate. There is also a logical method of allowing mum to latch baby onto the breast, feed and settle all of which the fathers in my practice understand and grasp far quicker than the mums. When I am able teach a dad how his baby needs to be positioned, latched and encouraged to stay focused during the feed, the success rate is incredibly high! Why? Because dad is taking control and is gently guiding his wife through the practicalities of nursing their baby.

Their conversation will usually go something like this:

Dad: Does it hurt?
Mum: No not at all, this is amazing. Can you see him swallowing? I am not sure if I can tell the difference between his sucks and swallows.
Dad: There, did you see that? Compress, okay, did you see that swallow? Look, you can see this bit dropping further when he swallows, can you see? Man he is really getting so much milk now. This little guy is going to sleep for weeks! I am so proud of you!
Mum: This is so amazing.

It is one of the most heart melting scenes to see a mum nursing her little one comfortably whilst a beaming dad looks on at what they have achieved together.

Yes there is the winding and the nappy changes that dads are better able to manage as they have not just birthed a baby, but I believe the extreme bonding happens at breastfeeds.

Up & coming

Monday, July 5th, 2010

Breastfeeding workshop
Wednesday 3pm-5pm 25th August
Let’s Breastfeed Practice, Twickenham
Cost £49 per mum

This is the last breastfeeding workshop in the water theme.

The mums on the June breastfeeding workshop loved the new theme and felt that it increased their understanding and grasp of breastfeeding, how to keep their baby awake during feeds, the frequency of feeds and how this changed, how to hold, position and attach their baby – according to their anatomy and much more.

All mums attending had already completed other breastfeeding workshops and couldn’t believe how much more there was to learn.

There are still a couple of spaces left on this workshop. If you would like to reserve your place, please call Let’s Breastfeed on 0208 7448144

27 August 3-5pm
Feed Fab Friday! in partnership with Leia in Richmond

The lovely Amber and I are working hard to provide a well rounded service for breastfeeding mums in Richmond. We would like our Feed Fab Fridays to become a regular event, combining great breastfeeding advice, with expert bra fitting service and the opportunity to buy beautiful nursing bra.

If you are a client – pop down and say hi, enjoy an expert fit and get your goody bag with more discounts. Look forward to seeing you there!

Do you CRAVE sparkle?

Friday, December 11th, 2009

I am really excited about this find!

Crave maternity wear has come to Richmond and has brought with it monutain loads of sparkle in time for Christmas and New Years Eve! Maternity wear is becoming more feminine and tailored, but usually costs an absolute fortune.
The current collection at Crave has the elegance and szooj one would expect at a boutique but without the boutique price tags! I could easily have bought a few bits for my wardrobe but I think I will save that for when I am expecting myself!

Go and have a look down Duke Street or look out for Jigsaw and then turn left and walk down toward the green.

Now you can have a very Merry Christmas!